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21 May 2011

Loyalty - Really Now?

For the last few weeks i have been subjected to continual random inbox messages to my FB page from B family member asking queries on if i am friends in the 'real' world as well as the world of FB.  Leading me to feel that perhaps this person maybe fishing for information or an argument.  I have apprehensively answered the queries only to eventually be bombarded with the typical 'why are you being so short with me, and i know its not my imagination' so i was left yet again to justify why i am friends or have added someone to my FB profile and then proceed to have to give a spiel on why i should be allowed to do it....  Not a nice feeling.  Then last night.. Oh my gosh.  Eldest child was attending his first sleepover with his other kindy friend so down one child, B and I were hoping for a nice, pleasant, relaxing night. How wrong could that be. No sooner had my status been updated that i receive yet another inbox message with her telling me that B and I should be loyal to her and not a certain other person she has issues with. Oh my gosh again i recite along with a few profanities.  How childish could this mid 30 year old be.. Really.  Upon consultation and a few long moments of myself ranting and raving like a loony to B, B proceeds to seize the moment and tell his family member how completely pathetic and sad she was being.  Said family member refuses to answer telephone and blocks calls repeatedly, and then has the nerve to text B telling him she wont answer her phone. This immediately gets both B and my back up as we prefer to tackle these issues either in person or whereby one person can hear the other person speaking and then it can rule out all possible excuses for why things where taken a certain way etc etc.

So, what are we to do? This person continually has a stick up their behind and we can guarantee without fail that each week at the end of the week she will proceed to pick a fight. She for some god only unknown reason comes to me?? What is up with that? I do not know, I am not blood related so really anything i do should have no affect on her.  B solution is to play her own game and publicly voice on FB on her page exactly what he thinks.  She then proceeds to delete and complain on his page that he is being the pathetic immature one. This coming from a woman who is telling us over 30's who we can and can't be friends with.  B then manages to get her on the telephone. She during the course of the quite loud argument with B claims if I am not happy with someone and i delete them from FB i should stay bitter and twisted forever and that I shouldn't be changing my mind. Oh really, coming from the woman who is continually pissed and angry at someone but then a day later is pretending nothing has happened.

So this black duck has officially done and dusted with this pathetic, double standard, fat, pregnant bitch. She has officially abused us for the last time ever and I will from now on be wiping my hands and i really do hope when her child comes along in 7 months time and she is sitting at home all sad and lonely and still moaning about how everything is everyone Else's fault, well i hope she wakes up to herself and realises that maybe, just maybe something may be her fault and that she is the reason why she is all alone......

Then i hope she wakes up and realises who is she to judge anyone, who is she to tell people who they can and can't be friends with, who is she to be having a baby, a poor innocent baby, whom she has no idea who the father is.

Perhaps then, she'll realise, perhaps, that counting to ten before you speak is really the best lesson she should of, could of learnt.

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