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22 February 2012

Master Problem

I arrived at Master 6 after school care to be rushed and greeted with a problem.  One of the workers has found master 6 to be having meltdowns.  It appears Master 6 is over emotional, angry and violent.. Oh dear I think. Not this shit again.  She then proceeds to explain Master 6 is also using the F bomb during arguments and directed the F bomb at a worker.  Oh dear I think.  Not this again. We agree to place Master 6 on a little good deed calendar.  For every good day he gets through the bigger the reward at the end of the week.  That problem part solved.  The worker and I proceed to discuss this further with Master 6 who indicates quite clearly his older half brother, Master 9, has not been at before school care or at school for 3 days and he is very upset by this.  Alarm bells ring.  B and I the weekend before today had had a monster arguement about Master 9 coming over and how it is always when B is at work but weekends B not at work Master 9 does not come over?? Anyway.. Part of Master 6 issues start to unravel.  He then proceeds to tell me how he is desperate to be part of the SRC at his school.  He tells his teacher who I shall from this point on call Witch.  Witch advises Master 6 it is based on an election of his peers and he must be voted in.  Master 6 is then set up for a fall, doesn't get any votes due to the fact he has no friends from the year before in his class and is left feeling empty and humiliated.  Okay he may not feel it, but I do for him.  This I see has a potential borderline problem with his behaviour.  I then join a few more dots and proceed to see that since beginning the new year he is also not coping with homework and becomes very emotional when it is attempted.  Obviously the change in class and not being with new friends, separation from his older brother is just far too much for him to process all at once.  B doesn't see it as an issue.  I beg to differ and will in private tomorrow be speaking directly with the school to save both mine and my sons soul from being crushed and hopefully nip the emotional issues Master 6 is currently experiencing.....  I can only try!

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